No Winner and No Loser!!

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Winners and losers are the most heard words now days. I have also heard it. Many people consider me, as a loser. I also think so, slightly. In this modern world, there are many kinds of people. Some are rich, some are poor. Some are high class hero's, some are middle or low class zeros and more and more. These were just the examples of what kinds of people live in this world. But, mainly they are classified into Winners and Losers. Rich-Winnner. Poor-Loser. 
This is all nonsense! Nobody is born a winner. They shape themselves as Winners. Let me start- 

Things aren't simple in this world, they are complicated like our lives. Logically, it is just an intangible understanding. This winning and losing is not about how you do, what you do and how much hard work you put in? It is all about the result. Only the result matters and nothing else. This won't help you cope up in life. If you win you get a life, if you don't you get death. This should not be your life. 
If you want to do something more than winning then you've to understand three major things:

1) Do your best and try to work hard: 

If you compete anywhere you should put your focus on giving your best and not on rewards. You should try to give your best output which will ultimately result in your favor. I ain't saying that winning habit is bad, it's good but till an extend. You won't win every race of your life. Any competition in life, is not about rewards, it's about efforts you put in. You get to learn out of it. Winning without your hard work is like getting salary without working. It's not right, I guess. 

2) No Shortcuts:  

Shortcuts. Aren't they too easy?
They maybe, not worthy enough! 
People think, bank robbery is better than working as a peon in a government office. Can't say about that it depends on people's mindset. The main aim of this point is shortcuts can help you up to a certain limit. It is not permanent. According to me, shortcuts won't help you ever.  

3) Attitude:   

It is the most important part of the winning or losing aspect of life. Winning doesn't implies to bossing on others. Winning may provide change in your attitude which is not good. Winning and losing both have merits. Winning gives you confident and losing makes you work more harder. Another thing is, don't think pessimistically and be firm and hopeful. There's always a better part waiting for you. 

I want to say something important through this article: 

"Winning and losing are only results of your hard work on that particular day. You won't do on that day. Some other day you would. It only judges you. Mark my words, Don't make your life judgmental. Make it courageous."

After all, it's just a competition and not the end of the world...

Amay Saxena 
  

  



 

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