Time to say sorry

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I took a break in the middle. This article is posted almost after a month now.  So, it’s a kind of a comeback for me. As you know, end of 2016 (year) is near and everyone has already started planning their Christmas parties and New Year eves. So, before you look forward, I request you please look back. When you’ll look back, you’ll come across questions like these:
        
  Was 2016 a good year for me? Was it beneficial? Where did I go wrong? What was the brightest spot in this year? Did I improve as a student, child, partner, etc?
          
  Above mentioned where the examples, but it is okay if have not improved or it was a bad year for you. So, just take a moment and try to remember how many people you must have hurt this year? Frankly speaking, I have hurt many people. Do you think its worth to take that regret in the next happening year? Have you ever thought the person you fought with can be worrying about you or he must be waiting for you to apologize? This is just a thought. 
           
 Many people often have a rude attitude. They think, why should I say sorry?  They can also take the initiative. This particular mishap breaks relationships and friendships, every year.

Why people don’t get it, that this phase is over and another phase is going to start for their betterment? Why to enter the New Year with hatred in our hearts? Let it go. It may not be beneficial to you. In actuality, it will poison your thoughts and you may end up taking revenge from others!  If you feel people won’t accept your apology, let them not. Do your job and back off and leave the rest to them. They may soon realize, you did the right thing—by apologizing for your mistakes!

So, do think about this and say a simple word, “Sorry” to everyone you have hurt this year.

I am also sorry if I have hurt anyone by the articles I post on my blog.

Thank you,

Amay Saxena!

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