Happy Mothers Day!

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Mothers Day! Another time we thank our mothers for her hard work, her love and her dedication towards managing us! I don't know why but every time I see my mother, I feel like respecting her even more. There has to be a reason behind it and actually after unsuccessfully living 18 years of my life I have found that reason. 
Reason:
This process of motherhood starts from the day a child is born. After happily struggling to keep that child in her womb healthy, she finally brings her child in this beautiful world. After supplying a child to her family, she doesn't just get relaxed and starts chilling, her real work begins and every mother is aware of it. A mother then takes care of her child happily and at the same time, she manages to keep her family content. Providing immense love to her child, she also makes sure that her child grows up to be healthy and ready to fight for life in this ruthless competitive world. By the time, a child is fully grown up, a mother doesn't remain only a mother. She transforms into a role model and tries guides her child to the right direction. I am not saying a father can't be a mentor but mothers are loved the most. 
A mother loves her child in different ways one wouldn't get it. She may stop her son from doing something wrong - that's her love. She may get angry at her son if he fails - just to let him/her know that someone in this world is caring for him/her. 
There are different phrases that define motherhood and mother but none of those are true because mothers are indefinable. 

Wicked Reality: 
All that I have written above is just about a mother and not about her child. Now, I will write about a child who is born because of her mother! Once that child is grown up, he starts misbehaving with her mother, he stops listening to her, he starts to avoid her calls, he starts giving priority to his partner instead of his mom, and eventually, he just ends up his relationship with his mother by saying: "You're no one to interfere in my life"  (Not every child)
Maybe these words are enough to trouble the mind of a mother. However, she thinks it was an impulsive act and forgets his words and forgives him. This process repeats day after day and seems to be unstoppable. But there is one unknown power is this world, whose name is God and he looking at what that mother did for her son and what that son did for her mother! 
To all the mothers I want to say, just be yourself. Be caring, be loving and have faith in god. If your son is misbehaving with you, just remember - You're a mother and as a mother, you can do anything. Anything. 

Thank-you! 

Amay Saxena

PS: Try to identify the struggles and pain of the ones because of which you now have an identity! You got me, right? 

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