Value The Presence Of Women In Your Life!

First of all, Happy International Women’s day. To be honest, I was not going to write anything on this day. My upcoming examinations were stopping me to do so. But still a reason took a birth and my impulsive mind didn’t think twice before switching ON the laptop.

This day holds a special place in everyone’s heart as everyone has a woman in their life.  No matter how much we shun women, we depend on them. Talking personally, for everything I depend on my mother and my girlfriend. My mother does all my work due to which I am like this; reckless. My girlfriend’s mood depends on my mood. If I am not happy, she isn’t happy either. So, both of them do care about me and try to make me happy. But do I take the same efforts to make them happy or to make them feel satisfied? Simply, do I value their presence in my life?

The answer is: NO. I don’t value their presence in my life. But as a writer, I do have a special power of imagining future events and I do feel those events. So, I don’t know why, but whenever I imagine my life without my mother I feel emotionless. I see my life is incomplete without her. Not because I cannot wash my underwear on my own. Just little sour arguments with her are what I actually miss. My mother is a fighter. She fights all day like all other mothers in the world. Every day we both get into fights and those fights are well forgotten after the some moments in silence. But here what the problem lies. She does all work, cares about my health, looks after me (still as if I’m a baby), worries about me, and her life just revolves around me. What does she get in return? Fights. Is it fair?

Well, in the modern age, most of the guys spend most of the time with their significant other instead of their family. I am a part of this era and I do the same. I spend most of the time with my girlfriend (and I am mentioning her here because she holds a special place in my heart. Don’t get opposed. I am not comparing her with my mother. Both are different, special, and unique.) Nothing’s changed here too. I do have struggling times with her and I do mess things up and apologize and the same is repeated again and again. Nothing’s changing in my life. Both women in my life aren’t happy with me and I am helpless as I don’t know what should I do. Well, it’s not like I really don’t know what I should actually do. But I can’t do anything. All I can do is love them and stay with them through their tough times. That’s what I am actually doing, to be completely honest.

Whatever I wrote above is just an extract from my life, there are more women in this world who need nothing, but LOVE.  Well, I am not kidding. Women don’t need high standards of living (it’s not wrong if they demand), they don’t ask for wealth, they don’t really want arguments, they don’t need hatred. Women just need love. It is because love is something precious and it completes everyone. Love your mother, your significant other and you know what love inculcates respect for women. Value their existence. Make them realize that they’re special and important in your life. This might sound the most boring article by anyone, but this article is written by someone who has lost many significant women in his life.

Realize worth of a woman in your life. They complete you, they make you stronger, they love you, they make you and if you don’t value them – they have the power to break you. So, I humbly request you all, to value them at first place otherwise you'll have to regret. 

JUST FOR WOMEN:

On a serious note, I want to request all the women reading this article. Stop comparing yourself to men. Don’t post Facebook statuses like women are not weak and all (not telling you to stop. You're independent and can do anything. Just an advice, it is). Just be yourself and do your work. If any man tries to cross your path, stay united, but don’t feel weak. You’re the strongest. Without you, we don’t exist. So, chill and excel.  

Thank you for reading! This article was not spot on. Sorry about that. 

Amay Saxena!