Writing Your Own Destiny!

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People say, no one can control his or her destiny. Things which are meant to happen, will happen in future, you can't predict it or can't do anything towards it. But, I don't think, this is a true philosophy? 
Everyone in this world has some amount of control over his or her future. People have something in them, which helps them to write their own destiny. I call the thing: Confidence. 

Anyhow there are four things people should be careful about if they want to write their own destiny: 

1) Selecting a goal in life

Many children get confused about what courses are suitable for them? They confuse themselves and end up taking a wrong course, which is not at all right. If they take a wrong course it's not possible to write destiny because writing one's destiny requires passion. So, children should undertake courses, they are passionate about. It will help them in future. They will know what they want from their own life? One can pave the way for himself only if, he knows the destination. If you select right, you're right! 

2) Distractions

Distractions are the main cause for one's failure. There will be distractions in everyone's life. There will be days when these distractions will lead to your destruction, at that time, you need to hold on to hope. Well, talking about distractions, there can be distractions in many ways: like bad group of friends, parental pressure (will further lead to irritation), pressure of studies, many other problems that one can face. People cannot avoid or hide from these things. All one can do, is fight. Fight against it and win over it. 

3) Failures 

I'm going to do suicide because I failed in my examination, this sentence is the most heard one now days. Is it making sense? If a student gives his life for a failed examination, will he get anything out of it? I guess, no. If one want to write his own destiny, one should know how to deal with failures? Failures are the main reason behind success. To get motivated during your tough times, one can read autobiographies. I may recommend one: the other side to me, by Sidney Sheldon. Read it. It's worth. 

4) Success Story

If you get through, and became what you wanted, share your success story with others. One can get help from it. Write a book, of your beautiful journey of life, let the world know what it needs to be successful. 

You need a pen and many blank pages, to write your own story, and you must know what's going to happen page after page...
After all, I am writing mine.               

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